15 Best Bridesmaid Proposal Sayings to Ask Your Besties (2024)

Planning bridesmaid proposals? Here are some cute bridesmaid proposal sayings that rhyme — and some that don’t — when you pop the question! Read on for some ideas + subscribe for the latest to your inbox.

Your wedding is an exciting time. There’s the fun stuff — like picking a wedding dress, wedding cake sampling, planning the guest list — and the not so fun stuff, like budgeting and figuring out your timeline. Bummer! But those things will eventually get done and you can, for now, have a little fun with it: pop the question to your bridesmaids and ask them to be a part of your wedding.

They will be your support team, after all, so you’ll want a solid crew of BFFs to lean on!

When you ask a bridesmaid to be in your wedding, it is known as a bridesmaid proposal. You can ask in person, on the phone, or by sending a gift.

It can be as elaborate as one of these bridesmaid boxes or as simple as a card. A small piece of jewelry (this one is under $8!) is a sweet way to ask, too.

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There’s no wrong way to do it, as long as you ask early! :)

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When to ask bridesmaids to be in your wedding

The best time to ask bridesmaids to be a part of your wedding is ASAP. You’ll likely want to ask once you have a date and location set, so they know exactly what kind of timeline you’re working with (and whether or not they are able to travel). Once you set the date, it’s a good time to pick out who will be a part of your wedding party.

Note: This simple “will you be my bridesmaid” card is super cute and I like the calendar portion! By MJpaperieShop.

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Bridesmaid proposal mistake to avoid

The biggest mistake to avoid when asking bridesmaids to be at your wedding is not being 100% sure you want to ask a certain person. You don’t have to ask someone to be in your wedding just because they asked you to be a bridesmaid in yours. It is important to select those who support your marriage and like your partner; a bridesmaid should be excited for you and willing to participate in the celebrations leading up to and including your wedding day.

Now that you know more about how to ask — and what to avoid — let’s talk about how to pop the question. Here are some bridesmaid proposal ideas you’ll love to use when asking your besties to take part in your big day.

1. I Couldn’t Say I Do Without You

This is the most popular bridesmaid proposal sayings that rhymes. It’s simple, to the point, and I like the tagline paired with this pair of socks, shown below. These socks have a band on them that say, “I couldn’t say I do without you”. Awwww. By BlissfulSocks.

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2. Obviously

Obviously, you’ll be my bridesmaid! This is a great card for when they already saw it coming a mile away. :) By PinkHousePress.

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3. Be My Bridesmaid

A sweet card for popping the question. Get this one by Caitlin Considine.

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4. Now Act Surprised

This saying doesn’t rhyme, but it’s a funny option for a more casual bridesmaid proposal. It says, “Now act surprised as if you had no idea this was coming”. Card by FireflyPaperStudio.

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5. Without You, It’s No (Bridal) Party

This bridesmaid proposal quote says, “Without you, it wouldn’t be a bridal party”. Cute! By Lea Delavaris.

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6. Help Me Get My S Together

Get it together! This funny proposal idea is a saying for friends who know each other oh-so-well. You’ll need your bridal party to keep you grounded and, well, keep your s together! ;) Here’s a candle to make popping the question more memorable. By KKHCandles.

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7. B, Please!

This card is the best bridesmaid proposal sayings for someone who totally, 100% already knew she was going to be your MOH! Love it! By PoppyPaperDesigns.

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8. Fact, I Am Getting Married

This is the best card for the bridesmaid who is a fan of the tv show! By Tagooey.

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9. I Found My Mister, But I Still Need My Sister

This card is perfect for your BFFs. It’s great for your actual sister, and also for BFFs who are just like sisters. By FireflyPaperStudio.

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10. Can’t Get Hitched Without My Fave B

Can’t get hitched without your favorite b___! This candle makes the bridesmaid’s proposal saying even more memorable. By Scentfield.

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11. I Need An Answer Right Meow

My favorite bridesmaid card for popping the question to cat lovers! By Tagooey.

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13. Hold My Dress?

Hey, we all need that helpful bridesmaid pack to help out in every way possible at the wedding! Ha! By RusticandRuffly.

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14. I Got The Ring

I got the ring… but I still need one thing. You! Will you be my bridesmaid? Love this saying for a bridesmaid proposal on a wine bottle label. By BananaChipStudio.

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15. No Us Without You

And finally, here’s a bridesmaid proposal saying they’re sure to remember: “Without you, there’s no us!” By Pati Cascino.

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Asking bridesmaids to be a part of your wedding is an exciting time. Make it memorable with one of these bridesmaid proposal sayings and they’ll be sure to join in on the fun!

Now that you know some of the best sayings for bridesmaid proposals, how will you pop the question? Tell us in the comment box below!

Happy Planning!

xo
Emma

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Emma Arendoski

Emma is the CEO of Emmaline Bride, The Handmade Wedding Blog, published author, leading wedding expert, and wedding planner. Read her latest book: The Inspired Wedding. Wife, mother, coffee lover. Follow on Instagram and at Emmaline Baby for baby + kids inspiration.

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